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I've been married going on 20 years now, so me being attracted to women other than my wife wouldn't serve a useful purpose. But back when I was looking for a wife... no, I never experienced that. I never recall seeing a girl I did not think was physically attractive who I got to know better...

I was raised in a church environment that was not friendly toward the idea of tattoos. I remember one guy had one on his arm back in the '70's. Maybe he made it dance or something when I was a kid. I moved away and went back to visit at that church as an adult. I saw him and got to talking...

bbyrd009 If we are going to discuss whether arsenokoites are really not going to inherit the kingdom of God and that a man lying with a man as one does with a woman should be an abomination and was among the things that even got the Gentiles kicked out of the and for their wickedness, how about...

I am not and have never been in a bed with you. I wonder if you left out a word or two there. I started hearing 'get in touch with your feminine side', starting maybe in the 1980's. It never resonated or made sense to me. We, men, have a capacity for love, the be nurturing, etc. It's not...

Btw, I am not a medical doctor, but I did play one on TV. I should have played an actor, because it would be cooler to say, "I am not an actor, but I played one on TV." That expression does not resonate with me. Men can be empathetic and understanding, too. that is not an exclusively...

When I was 9, I saw He-Man toys and thought it would be cool to be strong like that. But it isn't the same sort of thing as finding someone good-looking like I can perceive a woman as good-looking.

I remember seeing one of the Apple Dumpling Gang movies as a kid, and in one scene, some men dressed as women as a disguise. I've always found that ugly and outright repulsive., even from childhood. I never got how that was supposed to be funny, though it shows up as a bit in sit comes and...

Good point. Some of us cannot tell with a glance if another man is good-looking. For me, it's guesswork or a case of asking someone if I have a reason to find out (e.g. trying to figure out who is going to be the love interest in a movie or if i were to try to do some sort of match-making.) I...

Looks like a dude, so he is not 'good-looking' to me at all. The drag queen look combined with the demonic sounding voice sure is creepy though.

I've got a PhD and I did study some psych, just not this field. Neither field is clinical psychology. That is where my psychology interest comes from. Are you saying you perceive other men attractive and you think I am the one with the psychological problem? :) Some men have a sense of...

Btw, when I brought this up elsewhere, some men respond like this. Other men think only women can tell if a man is good-looking. some have a vague sense of it. When my son was probably about 11 or 12, he asked me about how to tell if a woman is good-looking. But nature took its course on...

I've got to admit tha tlooks were important when I was looking for a wife. She had to be a Christian, have good Christian character, be a virgin, and be stunningly beautiful-- at least to my tastes. Sorry, it was just something instinctual. I just wasn't attracted to every woman. It's a...

I made a message too long and cut it in half and posted it, so I did not include the quoted by part. I am not sure what you mean by squirrel tracks though.

They say good-looking men have an easier time getting women than less attractive men. Women might be a little less into physical attraction, but it still a big part of it, especially with the younger women. The thing with attraction is that it is so instinctive and not usually related to the...

My guess is the first one would win with the girls in a survey as the most attractive one-- scars and toughness. If a grad student did this, he could ask the girl out after the survey, then do a similar survey with good-looking guys and see which scenario led to the most dates. I wouldn't be...

Probably so. I think my wife is beautiful. I'd have said at least 90th percentile for looks, certainly when I met her. But she's southeast Asian. I introduced her to a friend who was married to a Chinese who'd already commented on not finding the local southeast Asian population attractive...

I can tell these 'men' are supposed to be unattractive because they look so strange. Its people in the 'normal' range that I can't tell. I hope Danny DeVito doesn't read this, but I could probably guess he is not the best looking actor in Hollywood, and wasn't when he was young. Speaking of...

I like the casting decision comment. If you were a director, would you know who to cast if someone is supposed to be good-looking to the movie audience. It is also something artists would be concerned with. I asked my wife if Woody Harrelson was good looking when we were watching a movie...

Fair enough. Sorry if I misunderstood you. This is not the most spiritual of threads, but there are scriptural-references to people being good-looking, like Rachel or David, or the woman chosen from among the captives a man might choose to marry. So it shouldn't be considered a forbidden...

I don't see it. If someone had asked me if he were good-looking after I saw 'A River Runs through It' before I heard women talking about him being good-looking, I might have guessed no, just because his face is shaped differently from other actors who were said to be good-looking. It's like...