Where do I start. I have more questions than answers as this topic is very relevant to me and I am like a sponge and interested in numerous thoughts on the subject to try and find a biblical standpoint.
To start with....
Games hey!....and the people sat down to eat and drink and rose to play....Exodus 32:6
Thanks for posting that verse. I'd like to elaborate on this a little. Firstly the people sitting down to eat, drink and then rose to play. Does this mean that all games and 'play' are wrong? (Since they wouldn't have had 'computer games' back then - are you alluding to all 'play' being wrong)?
(Please note - these are not attacks - I'm humbly asking as genuine questions as I would like to know where "the line" is on this way of thinking as I am sometimes challenged by the subject myself and appreciate another perspective).
If I take that approach - then does that mean it's wrong for me to go and play golf? Or is that OK because it can be excused as physical exercise and good for the body?
If golf is permitted under exercise - is it wrong for me to sit down with my daughter and play a game of Chess in the living room? Or is that OK because it exercises the mind and spending quality time with her? Or is it wrong because it is 'attacking' and simulates destruction of an invading force and killing certain opponents?
If it's OK - can I play computer games with her as well, or is that wrong because it's now electronic?
If that's OK - is it OK to play chess online instead with my phone as a computer game? Or is it wrong because I'm not psychically with my opponent?
I see that you enjoy sailing. Oh - how much I love it too (and I'll admit, I'm a bit envious - you sailing the world!!! How I want to do that) - even though I have only sailed once. I managed to hire a bare-boat 38 foot cat a few years ago and went out with the family and some friends for vacation. Steep learning curve and loved every moment of it. Stayed in sheltered areas but I watch various youtube video's of people sailing the world and just dream.....
Sadly - I live inland so sailing opportunities are very few. So - I ended up buying esail - a sailing simulator for my computer so I could learn more about sailing with the hopes that one day I will be able to do some more real sailing and have better knowledge. I would much prefer to sail for real but life has not afforded me that opportunity except on one occasion. (Well that, and it's much safer to learn to jibe in a virtual environment) :)
Would you consider playing esailing simulator also sinful as it's a 'game' and sailing is only 'play' for me as I don't need it for travel or work and only do it for recreation? Or would that be acceptable because it's training for something real life?
I'm also a recreational pilot but in recent times things I won't go into has suspended my flying. I do play some flight simulators though - but I'll admit the aircraft I fly in simulators are not the same as real life. (Faster and more expensive). Would the flight simulator be acceptable if I was using it for training purposes, but not for 'fun' and 'play'? Again just wondering where the line is drawn and why?
I find that at the moment with the restrictions we've had (where we haven't even been allowed to visit close family or dying relatives) - gaming online has been a way of connecting with many people, both new and old friends. (As we have headsets where we 'work together' to work through various challenges). I've had a long spell from gaming but recently got back into it during the lockdown when other activities are severely restricted. Should I not connect with others this way and only talk over the phone without interacting with games because games chance the communication from talk to 'play'?
Or is it OK (and maybe even beneficial) to interact like this as we're spending time with others doing things we can't do otherwise? Is your concern more with being self-isolated and playing solo games that has no connection to others because it's self indulging and therefore 'selfish'?
I see we have similar interests because not only sailing but I also love motorcycle riding in the country. (Especially the twisties). I try to take a week off each year to just get out and enjoy nature (and the lean of the machine :) ), but it's not always possible. I'm a sportstourer person myself.
Again - please don't take these as attacks - they are genuine questions. I'd love to understand your perspective. I pray now that this post will be received in the spirit that it was written.
FWIW - my current thoughts are that there are some games as well as movies out there that are demonic in their foundation and have the ability to affect people in ways we have no idea of - the least of which is attitude.
I'm also convinced that what is acceptable or maybe even good (ie games, even chess or golf, or my motorcycle riding) could become an obsession and take time away from more important matters - that it's not always about the activity but deeper issues that make it good, acceptable or sin. (I guess anything in life can - but I know it's so much easier with games - the time flies and it's easy to spend far more time gaming than one realises).
Much of gaming and hobbies in general I'm convinced are "wood, hay and stubble", but so are other recreational activities such as my motorbike riding. Although I also know that both activities can lead towards meeting new people, sharing time and getting to know people more - and can be used for good as well. Although I also know that all men can justify their own actions and it would be easy for me to justify all I do into a 'good' category - but I'm more interested in not justifying it - but knowing what God thinks about it?
So - I'm left, not being sure where the point is that this changes, whether it applies to all "play" as per your quote to Exodus, or whether your conviction is more about certain content and where you think the line is and why. Some things are good. Some are acceptable but not beneficial. Others are damaging.
I would love to discuss this more in a mature discussion with you and others as well.
At present - my current game is DCS World. I'm loving the interaction with other players - especially the helicopters and the challenge of trying to get from a to b without being shot down or support other people. (And the laughs that I get when challenging other mates and crazy things happen). Laughing is good for the soul and I've appreciated it the last few weeks! But as for whether this is a sin or not - I want to be open to being challenged on it.