And when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was pleasant to the eyes, and a tree to be desired to make one wise, she took of the fruit thereof, and did eat, and gave also unto her husband with her; and he did eat.
I take the underlined words to mean that Adam was with her when she ate the fruit.
You can take it that way, but it doesn't say so explicitly.
Naming Eve didn't give Adam the authority "to rule over her." In fact, God gave both Adam and Eve dominion over the earth.
Perhaps a study of how men of God can speak and make it so would be useful.
I've never completely understood the "desire" part, but this does sound like marriage.

From what I've seen, it works both ways, though.
I'd say men are more apt to look at other women. There is another aspect to this too, the "desire of women." There the woman wants to have holy children, so she needs her husband to help do that. This role of women is what the Dark Side really detests as in Daniel 11.
I can take bluntness as long as it's not cruel. I believe that you've implied that using tarot cards is okay. (I'd have to track back.) I've never heard you say that using tarot cards is evil.... Why do you assume that they scare me?? They don't scare me because I know that greater is He who is in me than he who is in the world!
You wanted me to burn them.
The "oral" Torah? Much of the Torah was oral until it was written. Are you referring to the first 5 books of the Bible, or what?
No, not the material that got written down. The Oral Torah used to passed on only verbally from one person to a student when he was ready to hear it. Some is still not written down, like the meaning of the cherubim in Ezekiel. The Sanhedrin wanted to "hide" that book since it discussed things the Sanhedrin wanted to conceal; but it had been popular too fast with too many copies around that they couldn't get them all and hide them away. Maimonides said that. The Oral Torah contained mysteries then. Nicodemus knew most of them and wanted to see if Jesus did. It may seem impossible to believe, but Jesus was talking about the cherubim with Nicodemus. John is discrete and doesn't explain much.
I read portions of the Zohar in my research on mysticism. I also read many unbiblical things the so-called "Christian mystics" said.... And I compared all that I read to God's written word.
I asked you if you had gotten that info from the Zohar because it sounds like things the Zohar says. But you never answered my question about where you got the info. I would really like to know.
I've learned from many sources. I've learned from Buddhism which teaches many things similar to Christianity -- but with a different cultural angle. I've learned from Taoism and a little from Hinduism.
Show me in the Bible where God says that Adam and Eve were to "become as wise as a serpent"? In the Garden, they didn't need this kind of wisdom. They didn't need to avoid evil. God had told them all that they needed to know in order to do everything He created them to do.
That thought came from Jesus when he told his disciples to be as wise as a serpent and gentle as a dove.
If they didn't need to avoid evil, how did they succumb to it?
It is "debatable" if they were to eat of the tree later??? Really? You're twisting (LOL, auto correct changing this to "tweeting") God's words just like the devil did! And I believe that this all goes back to the desire for "hidden" knowledge--occult knowledge.
Nowhere in the Bible do we see your idea expressed--that Adam and Eve were to eat of the Tree at a later time! They wouldn't need the knowledge of good and evil unless they disobeyed God and ate of the Tree..., thus bringing evil into the world. Do you see what I'm saying?
It's in there three times.
Genesis 1:29 And God said, Behold, I have given you
every herb bearing seed, which is upon the face of all the earth, and
every tree, in the which is the fruit of a
tree yielding seed; to you it shall be for meat.
Genesis 2:9 And out of the ground made the Lord God to grow
every tree that is pleasant to the sight, and good for food; the
tree of life also in the midst of the garden, and the
tree of knowledge of good and evil.
2:16 And the Lord God commanded the man, saying, Of every tree of the garden thou mayest freely eat:
17 But of the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, thou shalt not eat of it: for in the day that thou eatest thereof thou shalt surely die.
Why would it be there if it was never to be eaten of? To me, it is an impure thought to think God put it there to tempt them -- God doesn't tempt anyone. My own conclusion -- and I don't present this as solid -- is that if Adam had cleaved to Eve, if the two had become one, then they could have eaten of it, not alone but together with the fruit of the Tree of Life. (That may be something from the Zohar, I'm not sure.)
Remember now "trees" are symbols for "man." Indeed Moses wrote that man is a tree of the field. (It's never translated that way however.) So I see the two trees having been divided just as Adam and Eve had been. The two trees were meant to united.
I'm not trying to demonize you. This is what doesn't make any sense to me at all. You're not willing to accept that the devil was acting through the serpent because the Bible doesn't say "the devil" tempted Eve. However, you've repeatedly ascribed ideas to the Bible that are not expressly stated in the Bible. I would say that you've expounded on His word quite a bit.
I hope you don't think I present my ideas as something I expect others to believe unless it makes sense to them. On the other hand, you seem quite certain it was the devil in Eden.
I agree with what you're saying here, and it's very sad to me. God gave these spiritual gifts for ministry, and I've seen how valuable they are when used properly. I've also seen the devil's counterfeits used, but like I said before, we shouldn't throw out the baby with the bath water.
BTW, did you read the verses from Ezekiel I posted?
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I missed that, sorry. I see it portraying someone similar to the beast of the earth in Revelation. Again I found the Jewish commentary on that passage helpful since they preserved some historical details about that Prince of Tyre. Ezekiel says he was a man and would die like a man. Ezekiel is mocking him. "Oh, so you compare yourself to the covering cherub! Oh, you were in Eden!" The Prince of Tyre had built a temple dedicated to himself; and he knew some things about Eden, so he put things in that temple and painted the sun and moon and planets on the ceiling. His temple was built with dead stones, not lively ones of fire. He was a man just as the beast of the earth in Revelation is a man. He was spiritually insane in other words. I'd say he was used as a tool by Satan, but he wasn't Satan himself. The invasion of Tyre and his destruction happened as predicted. The man who wanted to be worshiped as a god or a godlike being was disposed of.