Just a FYI this topic is a hotbed. But can we all be adults and stop with the name calling and insults.
The 4 pages of this topic is full of it, and well its not very polite to do so.
I saw this test online a few months ago, it was a man that just for the day, interacted with people as if he was Jesus,
Not that he is Jesus, but if he was, how would he treat each person he interacted with. He said it was harder then he thought.
Because even when he did not act, he thought things Jesus would not. We are not perfect, every one in this topic is a flawed person, and sinful. And knowing scripture, or some passage better then the next guy/girl. Does not mean you can say what you want when defending the faith.
The Bible places a strong emphasis on the manner in which believers are called to defend their faith, especially in the New Testament. Speaking truth isn’t a license to be harsh or dismissive; rather, it’s an invitation to engage with grace, gentleness, and respect.
A key passage that speaks to this is
1 Peter 3:15-16:
"Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect, keeping a clear conscience, so that those who speak maliciously against your good behavior in Christ may be ashamed of their slander."
This passage highlights that defending the faith isn’t just about having the right answers; it’s equally about the attitude and tone with which those answers are given. The call is to be gentle and respectful, which reflects the love and humility that Christ exemplified. Even in challenging discussions, believers are encouraged to maintain a conduct that reflects the character of Christ.
Paul also advises believers on this topic in
Colossians 4:6:
"Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone."
Here, "seasoned with salt" implies that our words should be wise, insightful, and compassionate, not blunt or overly critical. Graceful communication respects others' dignity and gently invites them to explore faith rather than alienating them.
Lastly,
Ephesians 4:15 speaks to "speaking the truth in love," indicating that love should be the driving force behind all communication, even when correcting or defending the faith.
These verses remind us that truth without love can easily turn into pride or arrogance, which is not aligned with the spirit of the Gospel. Believers are encouraged to defend their faith in a way that reflects the humility, patience, and love that Christ showed, ensuring that the message is heard and the heart of the person on the other side is valued.