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I'm sorry for not being here much anymore. I have been busy with life. I don't really want to get why, but I'm feeling under a lot of pressure- like a pressure cooker amount of pressure, and having a lot of too much stress that I don't feel like my body can physically take.

Every time I start working towards doing good, this happens in this cycle. Within hours.

For context it's 4 AM and I just don't know where else to ask. I cannot sleep. I had a huge panic attack last night for the first time in probably years. I need it to stop because my mental health cannot handle it.
 
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I'm sorry for not being here much anymore. I have been busy with life. I don't really want to get why, but I'm feeling under a lot of pressure- like a pressure cooker amount of pressure, and having a lot of too much stress that I don't feel like my body can physically take.

Every time I start working towards doing good, this happens in this cycle. Within hours.

For context it's 4 AM and I just don't know where else to ask. I cannot sleep. I had a huge panic attack last night for the first time in probably years. I need it to stop because my mental health cannot handle it.
Sorry to hear about so much stress. Praying for you.
 

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Oh Duckie, my prayer for you and yours has not changed in any way and I am still praising God that He has heard my prayer and is even now working to draw you further into His loving Embrace.

For five years I have not travelled to visit my fellow brothers in Christ in a country which is dear to my heart but in three weeks we will be in that country to Praise God for what He is doing in that nation and the courage that the Saints in that land have, in pressing themselves further into God's purposes for them and for their nation.

You have a calling that is challenging the Spiritual Realm where you are presently living. Give Thanks to God that He has called you into this particular ministry to be His light to the world round about you. May the oil of the Holy Spirit never fail you to keep your lamp lit at all times as you shine His Glory through the mundane day to day activities that you have to accomplish to simple live in His Glory.

Give Thanks with a grateful heart. I know that my wife and I have too as we begin out journey to see our Christian friends and the dedication of the church that they are/have built. There have been many blockages being put in our path to hinder us from travelling.

Keep up the good fight and press into God's love and giftings and join with your fellow workers to continually praise and worship God where you are at where you live.

Shalom

For the precious Fluffy
 
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I'm sorry for not being here much anymore. I have been busy with life. I don't really want to get why, but I'm feeling under a lot of pressure- like a pressure cooker amount of pressure, and having a lot of too much stress that I don't feel like my body can physically take.

Every time I start working towards doing good, this happens in this cycle. Within hours.

For context it's 4 AM and I just don't know where else to ask. I cannot sleep. I had a huge panic attack last night for the first time in probably years. I need it to stop because my mental health cannot handle it.
Are you alone, with family or church members in your community?
J.
 

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I'm sorry for not being here much anymore. I have been busy with life. I don't really want to get why, but I'm feeling under a lot of pressure- like a pressure cooker amount of pressure, and having a lot of too much stress that I don't feel like my body can physically take.

Every time I start working towards doing good, this happens in this cycle. Within hours.

For context it's 4 AM and I just don't know where else to ask. I cannot sleep. I had a huge panic attack last night for the first time in probably years. I need it to stop because my mental health cannot handle it.

Hi, Fluffy, er, Ms. Duckie. Good to see you again.

I included you in my morning prayers. I couldn't decide if I should pray about addressing the sources of your pressure and getting you some relief, or praying for how you react to and handle stress and giving you some strength and wisdom. Since God was having a special on prayers today (POGO - pray one, get one free) I decided to ask for both.
 

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Are you alone, with family or church members in your community?
J.
I know everyone in the community and have family at home, but I'm taking time away from everything outside because of other responsibilities.

Mr. Duck and I have one another, but we're going through some stuff. Not in opposition to one another, just together in general life things.
 
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I know everyone in the community and have family at home, but I'm taking time away from everything outside because of other responsibilities.

Mr. Duck and I have one another, but we're going through some stuff. Not in opposition to one another, just together in general life things.
Are you depressed?
 
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Every time I start working towards doing good, this happens in this cycle. Within hours.
No good deed goes unpunished. (seems like, sometimes)

For context it's 4 AM and I just don't know where else to ask. I cannot sleep. I had a huge panic attack last night for the first time in probably years. I need it to stop because my mental health cannot handle it.
This helped me when I was going through some stuff. Really takes your mind off of things and puts it where it belongs.

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Mr. Duck and I have one another, but we're going through some stuff. Not in opposition to one another, just together in general life things.
I was kinda worried about that, because external pressures tend to affect the home relationship. I also included Mr. Duck and your children under the same protective prayer umbrella.
 
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Not usually depressed, just stressed, but I'm willing to bet my cortisol levels are through the roof right now on top of everything else, because I'm irritable and I feel puffy.

And I skipped my workout for two days in a row
Well, I eat twice a day, no sugars and white bread and gym daily, sometimes going for overkill.

I can give you plenty advice on workouts!

A change in diet-maybe?

Leafy Greens (Spinach, Kale, Swiss Chard)
Rich in magnesium, which helps regulate cortisol levels (the stress hormone) and supports muscle relaxation. Magnesium is also known to promote a calm, balanced mood.

Fatty Fish (Salmon, Mackerel, Sardines)
These are high in omega-3 fatty acids, which reduce inflammation and support brain function, helping to stabilize mood and reduce anxiety.

Nuts and Seeds (Almonds, Walnuts, Chia Seeds, Flaxseeds)
Full of magnesium, B vitamins, and omega-3s. These nutrients help calm the nervous system and combat stress by supporting healthy brain function.

Whole Grains (Oats, Quinoa, Brown Rice) What I eat in the morning--
Complex carbohydrates increase serotonin production, which promotes feelings of well-being and calmness. Whole grains also stabilize blood sugar levels, helping you avoid stress-induced energy crashes.

Berries (Blueberries, Strawberries, Raspberries)
Packed with antioxidants, which help repair cells damaged by chronic stress and reduce inflammation. Blueberries, in particular, are rich in vitamin C, which helps reduce cortisol.

Avocados
A great source of healthy fats and B vitamins, particularly folate, which is known to improve brain function and reduce stress levels.

Dark Chocolate (in moderation)
Contains flavonoids, which can improve mood and cognitive function. Dark chocolate also helps reduce cortisol levels, easing stress.

Fermented Foods (Yogurt, Kimchi, Sauerkraut, Kefir)
These foods promote gut health, which is closely linked to mental health. A balanced gut microbiome can improve mood and reduce anxiety.

Drinks:
Chamomile Tea
Known for its calming effects, chamomile helps soothe the nervous system and promotes relaxation. It’s often used as a natural remedy for anxiety and insomnia.

Green Tea (with L-Theanine)
Green tea contains the amino acid L-theanine, which promotes relaxation without causing drowsiness. It can help reduce stress and improve focus.

Ashwagandha Tea or Supplements
Ashwagandha is an adaptogenic herb used to reduce stress and anxiety. It can help lower cortisol levels and improve the body’s ability to handle stress.

Warm Milk
High in tryptophan, an amino acid that helps produce serotonin and melatonin, promoting relaxation and better sleep.

Water
Staying hydrated is crucial for managing stress. Even mild dehydration can negatively affect mood and cognitive function, increasing stress levels.

Herbal Teas (Lemon Balm, Passionflower, Lavender)
These herbs are known for their calming effects and can promote relaxation, reducing stress and anxiety.

Foods to Avoid:
Caffeine and Sugary Drinks: These can increase stress and anxiety by causing spikes in blood sugar and disrupting sleep.
Processed Foods and Refined Carbs: They can lead to mood swings and increased anxiety by affecting blood sugar stability.
Incorporating these foods and drinks into your diet can help manage stress naturally while supporting overall mental and physical health.

Let me know what you think @DuckieLady.
Johann.
 

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Well, I eat twice a day, no sugars and white bread and gym daily, sometimes going for overkill.

I can give you plenty advice on workouts!

A change in diet-maybe?

Leafy Greens (Spinach, Kale, Swiss Chard)
Rich in magnesium, which helps regulate cortisol levels (the stress hormone) and supports muscle relaxation. Magnesium is also known to promote a calm, balanced mood.

Fatty Fish (Salmon, Mackerel, Sardines)
These are high in omega-3 fatty acids, which reduce inflammation and support brain function, helping to stabilize mood and reduce anxiety.

Nuts and Seeds (Almonds, Walnuts, Chia Seeds, Flaxseeds)
Full of magnesium, B vitamins, and omega-3s. These nutrients help calm the nervous system and combat stress by supporting healthy brain function.

Whole Grains (Oats, Quinoa, Brown Rice) What I eat in the morning--
Complex carbohydrates increase serotonin production, which promotes feelings of well-being and calmness. Whole grains also stabilize blood sugar levels, helping you avoid stress-induced energy crashes.

Berries (Blueberries, Strawberries, Raspberries)
Packed with antioxidants, which help repair cells damaged by chronic stress and reduce inflammation. Blueberries, in particular, are rich in vitamin C, which helps reduce cortisol.

Avocados
A great source of healthy fats and B vitamins, particularly folate, which is known to improve brain function and reduce stress levels.

Dark Chocolate (in moderation)
Contains flavonoids, which can improve mood and cognitive function. Dark chocolate also helps reduce cortisol levels, easing stress.

Fermented Foods (Yogurt, Kimchi, Sauerkraut, Kefir)
These foods promote gut health, which is closely linked to mental health. A balanced gut microbiome can improve mood and reduce anxiety.

Drinks:
Chamomile Tea
Known for its calming effects, chamomile helps soothe the nervous system and promotes relaxation. It’s often used as a natural remedy for anxiety and insomnia.

Green Tea (with L-Theanine)
Green tea contains the amino acid L-theanine, which promotes relaxation without causing drowsiness. It can help reduce stress and improve focus.

Ashwagandha Tea or Supplements
Ashwagandha is an adaptogenic herb used to reduce stress and anxiety. It can help lower cortisol levels and improve the body’s ability to handle stress.

Warm Milk
High in tryptophan, an amino acid that helps produce serotonin and melatonin, promoting relaxation and better sleep.

Water
Staying hydrated is crucial for managing stress. Even mild dehydration can negatively affect mood and cognitive function, increasing stress levels.

Herbal Teas (Lemon Balm, Passionflower, Lavender)
These herbs are known for their calming effects and can promote relaxation, reducing stress and anxiety.

Foods to Avoid:
Caffeine and Sugary Drinks: These can increase stress and anxiety by causing spikes in blood sugar and disrupting sleep.
Processed Foods and Refined Carbs: They can lead to mood swings and increased anxiety by affecting blood sugar stability.
Incorporating these foods and drinks into your diet can help manage stress naturally while supporting overall mental and physical health.

Let me know what you think @DuckieLady.
Johann.
Have a lot of these at home in our pantry with millet and farro. (Haven't taken the time to learn how to cook it all. Lol) Waiting for the kale in our hydroponic gardens to grow and they're being slow.

But I do have some sencha and a full bag of blue lotus leaf tea so I might make a pot tonight of one of those.

Kimchi will be ready tonight hopefully. Still fermenting.
 
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Have a lot of these at home in our pantry with millet and farro. (Haven't taken the time to learn how to cook it all. Lol) Waiting for the kale in our hydroponic gardens to grow and they're being slow.

But I do have some sencha and a full bag of blue lotus leaf tea so I might make a pot tonight of one of those.

Kimchi will be ready tonight hopefully. Still fermenting.
There you go-and do I detect a smile?
Johann.
 

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I'm sorry for not being here much anymore. I have been busy with life. I don't really want to get why, but I'm feeling under a lot of pressure- like a pressure cooker amount of pressure, and having a lot of too much stress that I don't feel like my body can physically take.

Every time I start working towards doing good, this happens in this cycle. Within hours.

For context it's 4 AM and I just don't know where else to ask. I cannot sleep. I had a huge panic attack last night for the first time in probably years. I need it to stop because my mental health cannot handle it.

It sounds like a spiritual attack to me. When this happens there is two ways to alleviate. Well, three.

Read the Psalms. It always brings peace to my spirit to read Psalms. #2 is to pray, immediately and immediately. Lord help me. Give it to the Lord and set it at His feet. Then put it put of your mind.

#3 is, to treat it as a spiritual attack and an evil spirit and take authority over it and speak to it and tell it to leave in Jesus name and never come back, Jesus told us that we have authority over evil spirits, and Epesians 6 tells us how to fight them and you deal with the spirit directly. Maybe it is a spirit of oppression? A spirit of Anxiety? Something like that.

Think about what you said, when you try to set course on the good path and you get attacked immediately, then it is a spiritual attack. They cant have you all Holy Spirit filled and praying hard like a few Christians. That would make you dangerous to the dark side so you draw fire from them.
 

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It sounds like a spiritual attack to me. When this happens there is two ways to alleviate. Well, three.

Read the Psalms. It always brings peace to my spirit to read Psalms. #2 is to pray, immediately and immediately. Lord help me. Give it to the Lord and set it at His feet. Then put it put of your mind.

#3 is, to treat it as a spiritual attack and an evil spirit and take authority over it and speak to it and tell it to leave in Jesus name and never come back, Jesus told us that we have authority over evil spirits, and Epesians 6 tells us how to fight them and you deal with the spirit directly. Maybe it is a spirit of oppression? A spirit of Anxiety? Something like that.

Think about what you said, when you try to set course on the good path and you get attacked immediately, then it is a spiritual attack. They cant have you all Holy Spirit filled and praying hard like a few Christians. That would make you dangerous to the dark side so you draw fire from them.
I definitely feel this. Thank you
 

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For context it's 4 AM and I just don't know where else to ask.

That is probably the Lord that wakes you up between 3-5 AM. He does that to me too. I learned that it's easier to pray during these hours because there is less worldwide broadcasting in the airwaves. Less noise in other words.

If you wake up between 3-5 Am again, begin to pray. Say here I am Lord Jesus...and listen and pray.
 

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Have a lot of these at home in our pantry with millet and farro. (Haven't taken the time to learn how to cook it all. Lol) Waiting for the kale in our hydroponic gardens to grow and they're being slow.

But I do have some sencha and a full bag of blue lotus leaf tea so I might make a pot tonight of one of those.

Kimchi will be ready tonight hopefully. Still fermenting.
Farro is grown where I live. It looks like wheat in the fields.
It's cooked like rice. Plenty of water. Boil till done to your liking.
If you add stuff to it, it's really good.
I like to fry onion, carrots, celery, couple of garlic cloves, cut really small till soft.
Add shrimp to your liking.
Stir all ingredients well together and add pepper and salt to taste.
Yummy
and it's good for you.
 

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I'm sorry for not being here much anymore. I have been busy with life. I don't really want to get why, but I'm feeling under a lot of pressure- like a pressure cooker amount of pressure, and having a lot of too much stress that I don't feel like my body can physically take.

Every time I start working towards doing good, this happens in this cycle. Within hours.

For context it's 4 AM and I just don't know where else to ask. I cannot sleep. I had a huge panic attack last night for the first time in probably years. I need it to stop because my mental health cannot handle it.

I have highlighted what your problem might be above.

Every time I start working towards doing Good, I have taken over from God and He reminds me of this fact.

God looks for people who are attentive to his prompting, not those who are off doing their own thing.

Perhaps God waking you up at 4:00 am was trying to give you this message.

Shalom
 
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