We need to see the balance in God's judgments in our reading of the bible. God is far more merciful than fundamentalists can grasp. But He is also holy. God so loved the world...not just the church. Understanding this is a real challenge to the dogmatic beliefs of many believers.
But we can swing too far the other way. Are the wages of sin no longer death? The soul that sins...it will live?
Unless we learn about the different standards in the world and in the church...we will go in circles. God judges the world in righteousness, based on what we did with what we have been given; whereby His people are judged at a higher standard that includes His holiness. Two levels of expectation...two standards. One standard for the world…and one for His people. Judgment begins at God’s house. There will be two separate resurrections and two judgments based on these.
The law of God is binding on all people...the minimum standard for salvation is to love others as oneself. This is not based on believing we must do something based on religious theories. No, we will be judged by how we treated others...by what we did. This standard has always existed. It is an eternal path. Without fulfilling this requirement, we will have no place in the future nations. So, this standard is universal...regardless of spiritual achievement, beliefs, theories and lived experience. Universalism only works to THIS level. The wicked still perish in the lake of fire.
The fulness of salvation is with the saints, who walk in the power of grace. They will rule over the nations with the Lord. But then, to whom much is given, more is required. Those who fail the grace of God will be cast into outer darkness forever. So, we should fear the Lord. Of course, if we were wise, we would AT LEAST conform to the law of God regarding its universal application to love others as ourselves. However, many will get caught up in the hubris of grace only to fail both standards.
Who will be instructed in righteousness concerning God’s ways?