Rella ~ I am a woman
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You did not make this reply to me but I cannot find the one you did make to me that I want to reply to, so I am borrowing your reply here.What evidence do you have, if any, that shows the definition "a near kinsman, or relative" applies here; that the type of kinship that applies here is siblings; and that the brothers here were specifically some or all of Jesus's male brothers named in Matt. 13:55/Mk. 6:3, and which ones?
Before getting into the relationship of those 4 boys and 2 girls, for daughters were also mentioned ,stop and give serious consideration to
If they did not ever "get together" to consummate the marriage they never were legally married . It is the lack of consummation that has been a permissible reason to obtain an annulment.....
But what are the grounds for an annulment???
- Inability to consummate the marriage: One spouse is unable or unwilling to engage in intercourse and the other was unaware of this prior to the marriage
What we know...
Physical intimacy is part of God's normal plan for marriage, and a husband and wife have a responsibility to meet each other's needs in this area ( 1 Corinthians 7:2-4 ).
Along with Genesis 2:24-25 and 1 Corinthians 6:16, Jesus appears to teach that divorce — in the absolute sense — is physically and spiritually impossible: "What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate" ( Matthew 19:6, ). In other words, He seems to say that the union created through sexual intercourse is in some is in some sense unbreakable.
Joseph was all man in the way God made men .....Joseph wanted to take Mary and make a home with her.
Here is a Catholic view on the subject.

Were Mary and Joseph really married?
Official website of the Catholic Diocese of Lincoln.

Now... before going down this road with other links... it has to be acknowledged that without the consummation of a marriage the Catholic church will issue an annulment rather easily.Were Mary and Joseph really married? - Catholic Diocese of LincolnParagraph 1640 of the Catechism of the Catholic Church states:
Paragraph 1640 of the Catechism of the Catholic Church states:
Thus the marriage bond has been established by God himself in such a way that a marriage concluded and consummated between baptized persons can never be dissolved. This bond, which results from the free human act of the spouses and their consummation of the marriage, is a reality, henceforth irrevocable, and gives rise to a covenant guaranteed by God’s fidelity. The Church does not have the power to contravene this disposition of divine wisdom.
This even makes consummation sound more important, because it is something more powerful than the Church, which cannot dissolve or nullify a sacramental marriage which has also been consummated.
This is why most Christians and all Catholics have always believed that the formal marriage ceremony is one thing, but without consummation, it is at best, an incomplete bond.
We know that St. Joseph and the Virgin Mary never consummated their marriage. Does this mean that Christ’s earthly parents were not actually married?
No. Mary and Joseph were actually and validly married. One key difference between their marriage and marriage today is that they were not sacramentally married. Neither baptism nor sacramental marriage existed until about 30 years after Mary and Joseph were married. Until Christ instituted the sacraments of baptism (John 3:5) and marriage (Matt 19:6), marriage was, at best, a covenant. Today marriage is still a covenant, but it is also a sacrament if both parties are baptized and they have no impediment to marriage.
Is that what happened to Mary and Joseph? There was a point where Joseph just ceased to be mentioned in the New Testament.
The last time Joseph is mentioned in the Bible is when Jesus was twelve years old. Returning from a trip to Jerusalem, Jesus became separated from His parents, who eventually found Him in the temple conversing with the teachers. Could that have been the final straw with Mary fretting for her son... and likely always being a mother hen as much as she could and possibly just leaving Joseph in the background????
First, let's remember back to before Jesus was born
When the angel talked to Joseph ............... in the dream.
Conception and Birth of Jesus
18 Now the birth of Jesus [a]Christ was as follows: when His mother Mary had been [b]betrothed to Joseph, before they came together she was found to be with child by the Holy Spirit. 19 And Joseph her husband, being a righteous man and not wanting to disgrace her, planned [c]to send her away secretly. 20 But when he had considered this, behold, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream, saying, “Joseph, son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary as your wife; for [d]the Child who has been [e]conceived in her is of the Holy Spirit. 21 She will bear a Son; and you shall call His name Jesus, for [f]He will save His people from their sins.” 22 Now all this [g]took place to fulfill what was spoken by the Lord through the prophet: 23 “Behold, the virgin shall be with child and shall bear a Son, and they shall call His name [h]Immanuel,” which translated means, “God with us.” 24 And Joseph [i]awoke from his sleep and did as the angel of the Lord commanded him, and took Mary as his wife, 25 [j]but kept her a virgin until she gave birth to a Son; and he called His name Jesus.DOES ANYONE think he would have done as the angel said IF HE THOUGHT for one minute
they basically would keep seperate beds? Or perhaps hung a blanket between them?
Then we have the issue of a possible 4 brothers. Where did they come from?
Not the Jackson 5.... wrong color. Not the Osmonds... wrong faith.
So we are told they are the sons, and cousins, of other blood relations.....
Hmmmm sounds suspiciously like one big happy family. ... almost polygamous except that IS not God's wishes.
And then we also have been told they had to have been the sons... and daughters... of Joseph's first marriage.... (or maybe he had been married more then once before taking Mary to be his bride?)
And again.... if Joseph had been married before, let's have a show of hands on how long he
would stay in an unconsummated marriage.... Remember... back then the Jewish law permitted a manto put his wife away for any reason.
It just is totally unreasonable to believe that they just never did it.
And if using the excuse that men from back then up to today have gone without women in the form of Catholic priests, or women as nuns.... I should introduce you to a friend of mine who was a counselor in a South Miami diocese, and he could point to the door that the priests would take their nuns for whatever..... and this does not even touch on the priests
and their alter boys.....
God, our heavenly father, made the human body to function in specific ways if they are a normal male or female. (Not giving any lip service to the LGTBQ+whatevers that are a product of whatever Satan could dream up)
And these male and females... going back to Adam and Eve would eat, and drink, and eliminate bodily wastes. And they functioned with normal attractions to each other.... male and female.
IOW... God instilled a need. Especially in the males.
I have not a doubt in my mind that Mary and Joseph had a normal marriage, for the time.
UNLESS.... Mary was kind to Joseph and like Sarah was to Abraham? NAW, that is even too weird for me.... (But could account for the other children)