I'm glad you asked for my reply is prompted by the Holy Spirit. ;)
1st, being an apologist is not an option! We must always be ready to offer a defense of our hope.
but exalt Him as Lord in your heart. Always be ready to offer a defense, humbly and respectfully, when someone asks why you live in hope. ...
1 Peter 3:15-16 (Voice)
2nd, our job is not to condemn his lack of belief or dismiss this image bearer of God for lack of faith but to
plant seeds.
“What then is Apollos? What is Paul? Servants through whom you believed as the Lord assigned to each. I planted, Apollos watered, but God gave the growth. So neither he who plants nor he who waters is anything. But only God Who gives the growth.”
(1 Corinthians 3:5-6)
3rd, If you had explanations that made sense to you, it sure would be generous for you to share the wealth of wisdom.
- Whoever is generous to the poor (in spirit) lends to the Lord, and he will repay him for his deed. Proverbs 19:17 ESV (Emphasis added)
- I therefore, a prisoner for the Lord, urge you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling to which you have been called, with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. There is one body and one Spirit—just as you were called to the one hope that belongs to your call— one Lord, one faith, one baptism, ... Ephesians 4:1-6 ESV
4th, we should meet people where they are. Humbly admit he sees clear enough to set the foundation for discourse.
A wise Christian admitted to me, when I was not a Christian, that these are apparent contradictions. It builds a bridge rather than a wall. It takes Spiritual discernment to recognize the
apparent contradictions are not actual contradictions once one has moved on from milk to meat.
Though I am free and belong to no one, I have made myself a slave to everyone, to win as many as possible. 20 To the Jews I became like a Jew, to win the Jews. To those under the law I became like one under the law (though I myself am not under the law), so as to win those under the law. 21 To those not having the law I became like one not having the law (though I am not free from God’s law but am under Christ’s law), so as to win those not having the law. 22 To the weak I became weak, to win the weak. I have become all things to all people so that by all possible means I might save some. 23 I do all this for the sake of the gospel, that I may share in its blessings. 1 Corinthians 9:19-23
5th, taking the time to dismissively say 'Those can easily be explained' but not taking the time to actually explain it is beneath you. Better to tame your tongue and not strengthen the resolve of one apparently curious enough to post here.
So also the tongue is a small member, yet it boasts of great things. How great a forest is set ablaze by such a small fire! 6 And the tongue is a fire, a world of unrighteousness. The tongue is set among our members, staining the whole body, setting on fire the entire course of life,[a] and set on fire by hell. James 3:5-6 ESV