I was betrayed, hurt and cast aside by my pastor friend of 10 years , please pray for healing...

[LittleTuneAlright]

Please pray I get over the loss of a good friend who turned against me. I miss our friendship and cry daily . he said he would only be in my life if I accepted everything he said. but I found out he was lying and I just could not trust him... he accused me of things that was preposterous...he betrayed my trust, and It huts bad, to make things worse he was a pastor. I only ever cared dearly and I don't know what happened he became very vague and secretive and told me I needed to repent but not say what I had done even after he told me to ask him. I feel so grieved by the loss of what was 10 years of a good friendship and have some good memories but struggle to keep hold of them because of the pain he caused me and I don't know why.

 

[Ritajanice]

Praying that God will heal your heart pain...in Jesus Name...Amen!..

Plus who wants a friendship with someone who wants to “ control “ you....

 

[Hepzibah]

Please pray I get over the loss of a good friend who turned against me. I miss our friendship and cry daily . he said he would only be in my life if I accepted everything he said. but I found out he was lying and I just could not trust him... he accused me of things that was preposterous...he betrayed my trust, and It huts bad, to make things worse he was a pastor. I only ever cared dearly and I don't know what happened he became very vague and secretive and told me I needed to repent but not say what I had done even after he told me to ask him. I feel so grieved by the loss of what was 10 years of a good friendship and have some good memories but struggle to keep hold of them because of the pain he caused me and I don't know why.

Indeed, he was not a friend, he was a controller. What went wrong? Perhaps you began to see through him and he began to lose that control. They know it straight away. With a narcissist, it means that they turn against you and even destroy your reputation.

I think that spiritual abuse, that is abuse from those in authority in the church is the worst kind in some ways due to the trust you have in them.

There are some websites which support Christians who have been spiritually abused and books on healing from it. Sorry don't have links atm. I have know this abuse from 3 pastors. I might explain later but this is your thread.

 

[Nancy]

That kind of pain runs very deep and I am sorry you are going through this.
My prayers are with you.

 

[amigo de christo]

That kind of pain runs very deep and I am sorry you are going through this.
My prayers are with you.

water and oil will never blend dear sister .
The hour of our betrayal draws nigh indeed .
The world has its family and it will consist of the all inclusive love god and its will .
Anything and everything that did not conform to its false sensual love
WILL be seen as dangerous and in the way to world peace n safety . MARK THEM WORDS SISTER .
i been watching this thing GROW for years .
Folks have thought i was nuts for years too . NEVER even beleiving
there was any way the religoins could ever have merged as one under what they THINK IS GOD and IS LOVE .
WELL SISTER , LOOK AROUND ITS INCREASING BIG TIME . MASSIVELY NOW
as all religoins are coming together for common ground and believing the lie we all serve teh same GOD .
BETRAYAL to all who did not conform IS WHAT IS SOON TO ALSO COME . fear it not . FEAR IT NOT .
WE have the LORD . our END IS GOOD thanks TO HIM , THANKS TO CHRIST . HE WILL be with us through it all .

 

[amigo de christo]

Please pray I get over the loss of a good friend who turned against me. I miss our friendship and cry daily . he said he would only be in my life if I accepted everything he said. but I found out he was lying and I just could not trust him... he accused me of things that was preposterous...he betrayed my trust, and It huts bad, to make things worse he was a pastor. I only ever cared dearly and I don't know what happened he became very vague and secretive and told me I needed to repent but not say what I had done even after he told me to ask him. I feel so grieved by the loss of what was 10 years of a good friendship and have some good memories but struggle to keep hold of them because of the pain he caused me and I don't know why.

Dont heed a word one outta his mouth .
We can only ACCEPT TRUTH . if them lips of his flap lies , THEY CANNOT be accepted .

 

[Marvelloustime]

water and oil will never blend dear sister .
The hour of our betrayal draws nigh indeed .
The world has its family and it will consist of the all inclusive love god and its will .
Anything and everything that did not conform to its false sensual love
WILL be seen as dangerous and in the way to world peace n safety . MARK THEM WORDS SISTER .
i been watching this thing GROW for years .
Folks have thought i was nuts for years too . NEVER even beleiving
there was any way the religoins could ever have merged as one under what they THINK IS GOD and IS LOVE .
WELL SISTER , LOOK AROUND ITS INCREASING BIG TIME . MASSIVELY NOW
as all religoins are coming together for common ground and believing the lie we all serve teh same GOD .
BETRAYAL to all who did not conform IS WHAT IS SOON TO ALSO COME . fear it not . FEAR IT NOT .
WE have the LORD . our END IS GOOD thanks TO HIM , THANKS TO CHRIST . HE WILL be with us through it all .

@amigo de christo

 

[shepherdsword]

Men will always let you down. I have a similar situation only this friend was my "pastor" for almost 40 years. I leave you with this:

Ps 118:8 It is better to trust in the Lord than to put confidence in man.

and let's not forget this:

Jer 17:5 Thus saith the Lord; Cursed be the man that trusteth in man...

Blessings!

 

[Jay Ross]

@LittleTuneAlright

May the Lord continue to draw you into His loving embrace so that you may know His love for you and His peace within your Soul as He strengthens you to walk in His ways and purposes.

Shalom

 

[Grailhunter]

Please pray I get over the loss of a good friend who turned against me. I miss our friendship and cry daily . he said he would only be in my life if I accepted everything he said. but I found out he was lying and I just could not trust him... he accused me of things that was preposterous...he betrayed my trust, and It huts bad, to make things worse he was a pastor. I only ever cared dearly and I don't know what happened he became very vague and secretive and told me I needed to repent but not say what I had done even after he told me to ask him. I feel so grieved by the loss of what was 10 years of a good friendship and have some good memories but struggle to keep hold of them because of the pain he caused me and I don't know why.

Hard to find a good friend.

 

[LittleTuneAlright]

Thankyou everyone for your prayers. I have not cried today. I feel slightly better just getting this out. I thought I was going kinda crazy.

The Lord impressed upon my spirit to get out and stay out...it was something very strong and it felt unsettling, so I fled. There was a woman who had it in for me from day one, I saw how she baited others into bad reactions, she tried to bait me, so I had to back off from this demon in this woman.

but Thankyou for being here for me, friends, it means a lot, this is why my faith dwindled, I guess the only thing that kept me going was Him guiding me in my dreams because I was left in the dark from most of what was going on. He gave me a very good scripture in my dream, one I had never before read which summed it up nicely and made me feel at peace. psalm 37, verse 1 and 2.​

What went wrong? Perhaps you began to see through him and he began to lose that control. They know it straight away. With a narcissist, it means that they turn against you and even destroy your reputation.

The woman who had it in for me , she was very probably a " narcissist". (looked up the traits, wow) I witnessed her blatant unrepentence when she went all out to try and trip, and rip me up and bait me, I can see how some felt sorry for her . my pastor friend told me she did not mean to bully me... .things went down hill form there bc she did it again and again, and I snapped at her...he became frustrated with me bc I would not kiss her ass after that bc he obviously thought she was a "nice person: and I was wrong to suggest anything else and should of made her feel better. well I tried so many times, but it made her worse...she did it to so many others too. even others remarked how contentious she was. then when she got special treatment she improved...she reminded me of one of those supermodels that get up late and expects the airplane to wait until she arrives before it sets off lol and keeps everyone waiting.

I tried very hard to get along with her...and did witness people turning against me.

Some people are really just plain crazy makers. Glad I am out, but I am sorry it had to end with me blasting my pastor friend and falling out... I hated myself for that. I guess I just lost it by then.

xxxxx

 

[Windmill Charge]

Please pray I get over the loss of a good friend who turned against me. I miss our friendship and cry daily . he said he would only be in my life if I accepted everything he said. but I found out he was lying and I just could not trust him... he accused me of things that was preposterous...he betrayed my trust, and It huts bad, to make things worse he was a pastor. I only ever cared dearly and I don't know what happened he became very vague and secretive and told me I needed to repent but not say what I had done even after he told me to ask him. I feel so grieved by the loss of what was 10 years of a good friendship and have some good memories but struggle to keep hold of them because of the pain he caused me and I don't know why.

Please copy Jesus, who on the cross did not forgive his crucifiers, but instead prayed to his Father that he would forgive them.
We are told to tell God about what concerns us, so tell God about this man, his lies, control, abuse and betrail of you and your emotions.
Ask God to deal with him and with your hurts and feelings.
Lastly pray for this man, that he will repent and change.

 

[amigo de christo]

Men will always let you down. I have a similar situation only this friend was my "pastor" for almost 40 years. I leave you with this:

Ps 118:8 It is better to trust in the Lord than to put confidence in man.

and let's not forget this:

Jer 17:5 Thus saith the Lord; Cursed be the man that trusteth in man...

Blessings!

what a lovely reminder . Let all keep this in mind . We gots leaders of churches
as well as leaders on both sides of politics , left and right . THEY CANNOT be trusted
and are both deceiving the peoples . Blessed is the man whose hope and trust BE IN THE LORD
let none make flesh his strength . There is an agenda at work within the entire world
to merge the religons and peoples as earth to be as one . Didnt bode too well n the days of NIMROD either .

 

[amadeus]

Please pray I get over the loss of a good friend who turned against me. I miss our friendship and cry daily . he said he would only be in my life if I accepted everything he said. but I found out he was lying and I just could not trust him... he accused me of things that was preposterous...he betrayed my trust, and It huts bad, to make things worse he was a pastor. I only ever cared dearly and I don't know what happened he became very vague and secretive and told me I needed to repent but not say what I had done even after he told me to ask him. I feel so grieved by the loss of what was 10 years of a good friendship and have some good memories but struggle to keep hold of them because of the pain he caused me and I don't know why.

Praying for him and for you,

 

[Angelina]

Thankyou everyone for your prayers. I have not cried today. I feel slightly better just getting this out. I thought I was going kinda crazy.

The Lord impressed upon my spirit to get out and stay out...it was something very strong and it felt unsettling, so I fled. There was a woman who had it in for me from day one, I saw how she baited others into bad reactions, she tried to bait me, so I had to back off from this demon in this woman.

but Thankyou for being here for me, friends, it means a lot, this is why my faith dwindled, I guess the only thing that kept me going was Him guiding me in my dreams because I was left in the dark from most of what was going on. He gave me a very good scripture in my dream, one I had never before read which summed it up nicely and made me feel at peace. psalm 37, verse 1 and 2.​

The woman who had it in for me , she was very probably a " narcissist". (looked up the traits, wow) I witnessed her blatant unrepentence when she went all out to try and trip, and rip me up and bait me, I can see how some felt sorry for her . my pastor friend told me she did not mean to bully me... .things went down hill form there bc she did it again and again, and I snapped at her...he became frustrated with me bc I would not kiss her ass after that bc he obviously thought she was a "nice person: and I was wrong to suggest anything else and should of made her feel better. well I tried so many times, but it made her worse...she did it to so many others too. even others remarked how contentious she was. then when she got special treatment she improved...she reminded me of one of those supermodels that get up late and expects the airplane to wait until she arrives before it sets off lol and keeps everyone waiting.

I tried very hard to get along with her...and did witness people turning against me.

Some people are really just plain crazy makers. Glad I am out, but I am sorry it had to end with me blasting my pastor friend and falling out... I hated myself for that. I guess I just lost it by then.

xxxxx

Praying for you sister. The Lord gave me this word;
Rev 2:20
But this is what I have against you: you tolerate that woman Jezebel, who calls herself a messenger of God. By her teaching she misleads my servants into practicing sexual immorality and eating food that has been offered to idols.

 

[amigo de christo]

Praying for you sister. The Lord gave me this word;
Rev 2:20
But this is what I have against you: you tolerate that woman Jezebel, who calls herself a messenger of God. By her teaching she misleads my servants into practicing sexual immorality and eating food that has been offered to idols.

hey angelina you just brought up a lovely lovely and lovey reminder .
SO now i have a question .
WHY COME or in proper enligsh , HOW COME
most of the so called church comes after men like me for WARNING AGAINST FALSE teachers .
AND THEY HOLLER NOT STOP , OH STOP JUDGING , OH STOP BEING THE ACCUSER of the brethren .
You pray about that for a while sister .

 

[amigo de christo]

Hard to find a good friend.

Not really . few they be , but not really .
You looking at a man who has often been cast out , put on ignore
hated on for speaking truth that exposes sins and errors and
wont allow false teachers to seduce folks .
BUT I PROMISE YOU THIS , I GOTS ME ONE FRIEND and THAT FRIEND LOOKS OUT FOR ME .
Any guesses on who THAT might be ......
sure i do have a few others who are IN THAT FRIEND and OF THAT FRIEND .
but most hate folks like me . WHY
cause i dont pick and choose what false teachers or false doctrines to expose
By grace i expose BOTH SIDES , all false doctrine and all false prophets .AND IT darn sure aint cause i hate .

 

[Grailhunter]

Not really . few they be , but not really .
You looking at a man who has often been cast out , put on ignore
hated on for speaking truth that exposes sins and errors and
wont allow false teachers to seduce folks .
BUT I PROMISE YOU THIS , I GOTS ME ONE FRIEND and THAT FRIEND LOOKS OUT FOR ME .
Any guesses on who THAT might be ......
sure i do have a few others who are IN THAT FRIEND and OF THAT FRIEND .
but most hate folks like me . WHY
cause i dont pick and choose what false teachers or false doctrines to expose
By grace i expose BOTH SIDES , all false doctrine and all false prophets .AND IT darn sure aint cause i hate .

I mean human friends.
That is why you should apprecate me.

 

[amigo de christo]

I mean human friends.
That is why you should apprecate me.

To the trenches my friend . it is all out war for the souls of men in these last hours . To the LORD be the Glory
to the LORD be all praises with thanksgivings . Let there be ZERO compromise .

 

[soberxp]

Leave out all the rest, only embrace the word of God,keep it in mind every second,that will leading you to the way of live life and the healing then peace in the kingdom of God.

Blessing and pray.