I had a woman talking to me of late at a mates 60th party she was very good looking and in her late 30's she came and sat with me and said she wish she was a Man ! and did I ever think of being a woman. I said No ! I am happey who I am !
She said that she feared being taken advantage of when leaving work at night.
She was dancing with me before hand and she tryed to put me on the ground and she could not.
I said well that was sort of a Judo trick that she did to me, but I knew what to do ?
I said if you want to learn self defence you have to practic, it's not the moves so much but how and when to use such a move that is the issue, so if you are not as strong as one, you use their strength to your advantage but in time this will become natural and you will not have to think about what it is that you are doing, it just becomes natural and you will have faith in yourself to stand up for yourself ?
This is with regards for everything ? you become yourself ? and wanting to be is not the issue anymore, for you are YOU ! and you pride yourself because you know who your are ! so you are as one with yourself.
My Sensei was a little 5ft3 smart ass ! Last week I thought I would go see him, but found out he was dead. In the comments about him I had to laugh, for that person knew him, for they said he was a little smart ass ! I was like yep that would be something he would say for sure !
He would like nothing better to put a big bloke on his ass, if they disrespeced him. in a Nice way tho, not wanting any harm but just as a wake up call to such a one.
People who know who they are is where it's all at, real true Feminism is truly being a real woman, it comes natural ! but nowadays Satanist are abound and wish to play with everyone as a fool who is lost ! in leading people down the wrong path !
I think some people are all about trying to be making out, who they want you to see what they think they are ? That becomes a obsession and it's Satanic or they are Possessed !