How Can We Make Lives We Don't Need Vacations From?

[Wynona]

I really love this so I wanted to make a thread where we can think about living the lives we want now.

 

[Rita]

I find this a bit idealistic on one level. This writer says he has been all round the world, so he has travelled, had breaks ect. Has he followed his own advice. Also going away can sometimes give you a into the lives of others and different cultures, also the natural world - this can make you appreciate what you have and the created world. They can actually add flavour to your own life
Also its all good and well telling people to ‘ live where they want ‘ ‘ do what you want to do ‘ but is that reality for many , most people are governed by finances, circumstances,commitments and have a hard life at times. It’s only those with resources to bring about change that can embrace those goals.
The One thing that could apply to all is to find contentment in life so that you don’t feel the need to chase a different reality but can pray and embrace change or a break if it comes.

 

[Wynona]

I find this a bit idealistic on one level. This writer says he has been all round the world, so he has travelled, had breaks ect. Has he followed his own advice. Also going away can sometimes give you a into the lives of others and different cultures, also the natural world - this can make you appreciate what you have and the created world. They can actually add flavour to your own life
Also its all good and well telling people to ‘ live where they want ‘ ‘ do what you want to do ‘ but is that reality for many , most people are governed by finances, circumstances,commitments and have a hard life at times. It’s only those with resources to bring about change that can embrace those goals.
The One thing that could apply to all is to find contentment in life so that you don’t feel the need to chase a different reality but can pray and embrace change or a break if it comes.

OI understand what you mean. I guess the things I thought of for my own life were very simple.

I like sunlight, nature, walking, warm tea and coffee, quiet, and uncluttered spaces! To me, that is the sweetness of life to have access to those things and just enjoy them!

 

[Rita]

OI understand what you mean. I guess the things I thought of for my own life were very simple.

I like sunlight, nature, walking, warm tea and coffee, quiet, and uncluttered spaces! To me, that is the sweetness of life to have access to those things and just enjoy them!

I am a bit like you Wynona - I love those things as well. In many respects they are the basics of life, a home, provision, nature ect- although I did enjoy going away to Spain this year, where I knew it would be sunny every day - the views were stunning . When I was younger, and married, I did use to get envious of those who had holidays every year , but I think it was covertness ( if I am honest ) It was more of a reminder of what I didn’t have !

 

[Wynona]

I am a bit like you Wynona - I love those things as well. In many respects they are the basics of life, a home, provision, nature ect- although I did enjoy going away to Spain this year, where I knew it would be sunny every day - the views were stunning . When I was younger, and married, I did use to get envious of those who had holidays every year , but I think it was covertness ( if I am honest ) It was more of a reminder of what I didn’t have !

I wouldn't mind a vacation. I have a dear friend in Scotland.

But I also love the idea of romanticizing your own life and taking time to slow down and enjoy it, even if it's just something basic like going on a walk or drinking your favorite warm drink.

I think the guy in the tweet was seeing people stressed out most of the year but just hoping the vacation would make the stress of the rest of the year worthwhile.

 

[Rita]

Scotland is beautiful , went there many many years ago , although the weather doesn’t always behave !
I do think there are many that strive to have holidays because they think they have to have one every year, they work and work to achieve that and then after a week it’s all over. It causes endless stress.

I often think about that with big weddings, you know the ones that cost thousands and thousands of pounds / dollars - all for one day, just to be the centre of attention. They spend years saving up for one day and yet in reality you don‘t need the most expensive dress, venue, food ect. Society has fed the lie that it has to be the best and biggest.
Years ago I use to watch a tv show called ‘ Sweet sixteen ‘ - it just showed very spoilt sixteen year olds who felt they were owed something when they reached that age, and the parents went along with it………

 

[Wynona]

I often think about that with big weddings, you know the ones that cost thousands and thousands of pounds / dollars - all for one day, just to be the centre of attention. They spend years saving up for one day and yet in reality you don‘t need the most expensive dress, venue, food ect. Society has fed the lie that it has to be the best and biggest.
Years ago I use to watch a tv show called ‘ Sweet sixteen ‘ - it just showed very spoilt sixteen year olds who felt they were owed something when they reached that age, and the parents went along with it………

I definitely would spend even less on my wedding day if I could. It's one day! The need for this huge expense can really cause some issues. I'm definitely team save that money for honeymoon or bills.

OSweet sixteen... my sister in law turns sixteen next year. Id love to plan something but it may not be extravagant.

 

[Windmill Charge]

Life is hectic, everybody is busy, no one has time to be with each other.
A holiday ( vacation for those across the pond ) doesn't have to be exotic, just some p.ace different where everyone can slow down and reconnect with each other.

The other weekend my wife, my daughter and I went for a drive, we walked around a small town, explored the farmers market and the shops, e ding with a meal in another town while driving home.
It was nice just being able to walk and talk with each other.

I find it's the simple things that are enjoyable.

 

[Rita]

Life is hectic, everybody is busy, no one has time to be with each other.
A holiday ( vacation for those across the pond ) doesn't have to be exotic, just some p.ace different where everyone can slow down and reconnect with each other.

The other weekend my wife, my daughter and I went for a drive, we walked around a small town, explored the farmers market and the shops, e ding with a meal in another town while driving home.
It was nice just being able to walk and talk with each other.

I find it's the simple things that are enjoyable.

Yes I agree, my trip to Spain was with my eldest son, daughter in law and grand daughter- I don’t see them that often - I am retired now, but they work really hard.

 

[Rockerduck]

I've been on cruises, and I've driven from Key west to Canada. But toward the end of each trip was," I can't wait to get home". That's what the guy in the article is saying. I think vacations to a new place is fun, or a going someplace you read about. Even to an amusement park, but everyone wants to go back home to rest. I've just extended my back porch and about to have it coated. It is a large porch with a Portico to seat 20. I'll put an outdoor kitchen in next. As I get older, I'd rather be home anyways.

 

[Wynona]

Did some scrapbooking just now. Making time for creativity or journaling while baby girl naps is part of a life that feels good for me.

 

[Wynona]

Another way is to thank God for the blessings and priveliged we already have, no matter how big or small

 

[Rockerduck]

I praise God every day for all things, Good and bad. Make Jesus Lord of your life and Jesus will smooth out the rocky road of life.

 

[TLHKAJ]

OI understand what you mean. I guess the things I thought of for my own life were very simple.

I like sunlight, nature, walking, warm tea and coffee, quiet, and uncluttered spaces! To me, that is the sweetness of life to have access to those things and just enjoy them!

Amen, sister! We can enjoy life without glitz and vacations. If I need a break, I can sit outside in the shaded seating area and watch my chickens, cats, dog, listen to the birds, feel the breeze ....see the sunshine, feel its warmth on my skin on cool days... listen to some worship music or a teaching (inside or while I'm outside). I can even enjoy doing household chores while music is playing ....who needs a vacation when fresh air is right outside your door? :)

Now, I don't mind a drive down some back roads now and then ....see some scenery ...take a hike down local trails, etc. But that isn't something I do too often. If I want a change of scenery, I just go visit my grown children and their families... 3 or 4 hours away.