All people recieve the Holy Spirit for the asking through belief in the Lord.
9 “So I say to you, ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. 10 For everyone who asks receives, and he who seeks finds, and to him who knocks it will be opened. 11 If a son asks for bread from any father among you, will he give him a stone? Or if he asks for a fish, will he give him a serpent instead of a fish? 12 Or if he asks for an egg, will he offer him a scorpion? 13 If you then, being evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to those who ask Him!” Luke 11:9-13
That might be an oversimplification in that it doesn't include the work of the Holy Spirit in moving us to believe and to ask, but it remains true.
7 Nevertheless I tell you the truth. It is to your advantage that I go away; for if I do not go away, the Helper will not come to you; but if I depart, I will send Him to you. 8 And when He has come, He will convict the world of sin, and of righteousness, and of judgment: 9 of sin, because they do not believe in Me; John 16:7-9
Even religious people are of "the world" until they aren't.
Yes...it is a matter of choice...we all have the same ones. But no one can come to God’s son without an invitation from his Father. (John 6:65)
It is my belief that “the elect” are chosen by God for a specific role in heaven. (Revelation 20:6) These are the ones who receive the Holy Spirit in a way that their earthly subjects do not. Holy Spirit has various roles in scripture, to empower, to comfort, to educate, to convict, to help erring one’s attain to repentance, to endure persecution, and to face death if needs be....IOW, it is God’s power directed to whomever, and wherever it is needed.
To those anointed by it as a token of their heavenly inheritance, (Hebrews 3:1) it convicts those with “the heavenly calling” that their earthly shell (their human flesh) is temporary and that they will shed it and be ‘reborn’ as spirit beings in order to dwell in the heavenly realm, in the presence of Yahweh himself, something mortal humans cannot do.
They live a life like their Master Christ, are dedicated to the doing of God’s will by their “baptism into his death”, meaning that they will die a death like his and experience a resurrection like his, to spirit life in heaven. But these “firstfruits” are not only ones resurrected. These it says, are “resurrected first” because they will take up their positions, ready for the remaining ones to join them when Christ comes to judge the world. The general resurrection that takes place later, will see all those in their graves...”come out”. (John 5:28-29) These are those who will live as subjects of the kingdom along with those who are spared at the judgment.
This is what I believe being “born again” actually means. It’s not an emotional experience, but a token that is preliminary to attaining their heavenly inheritance. This anointing overrides their natural desire to live forever in paradise on earth as God first intended. There was no mention of heaven for Adam because God had provided the means to live forever here on earth....”the tree of life”. The humans had free access to this tree, as long as they were obedient....so logically, everlasting life (not to be confused with immortality) was God’s first purpose for the human race...they were to “fill the earth” with their kind and “subdue” their surroundings until the whole planet resembled the garden of Eden. God supplied them with everything they needed for an everlasting, healthy and enjoyable existence, right here where he placed us. Who told us we needed something better? We know who.
When “the end” comes, as we see it bearing down upon us now, Jesus and his angelic forces will eliminate from existence all who have served the interests of satan on this earth....many believing that they were serving God. (Matthew 7:21-23) These, Jesus says, are those he “never knew”....meaning that they are practicing a form of Christianity that is fraudulent....a counterfeit planted by the devil. Jesus informed us of this situation with his parable of the “wheat and the weeds”......he knows the difference, and during this “time of the end” he is separating them.....only the “wheat” will be invited into the Kingdom that Jesus taught us to pray for.....so that God’s will could “be done on earth as it is in heaven”.....
I see so many concentrating on going to heaven that they don’t seem to realise that this was never God’s purpose for mankind. At the end, God will restore his first purpose for the human race, having the ransom of his precious son guarantee everlasting life for all whom the devil was unable to deceive. We are all being tried and tested.
Revelation 21:2-4 will then have its glorious fulfilment....
“I also saw the holy city, New Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God and prepared as a bride adorned for her husband. 3 With that I heard a loud voice from the throne say: “Look! The tent of God is with mankind, and he will reside with them, and they will be his people. And God himself will be with them. 4 And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes, and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away.”
This is what we can look forward to if we have kept ourselves free of the entanglements of the “weeds” and their false teachings. (2 Corinthians 6:14-18) Those who love what God hates will have no place with him....and time is running out for those who have yet to make a decision about whose interests they are serving. The devil is not called the “deceiver” for nothing.